Cozy Moonchild Blog

Hey Moonfam,

Have you ever felt trapped inside a life that doesn’t even feel like yours anymore?

Sometimes the biggest cage isn’t built by the world—it’s built by the stories we tell ourselves.

I’ve been there too.

There was a time when I clung to titles, labels, and stories about myself because they made me feel safe. But safety built on limits eventually turns into a cage. And when you’re ready to grow, that box starts to feel smaller and smaller until you just can’t stay inside anymore.

Today, I want to talk to you about what it looks like to step out of those old boxes—out of those old versions of yourself—and truly start living limitless.

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Hurt People, Hurt People: Seeing Beyond the Surface

When you’re first waking up, it’s easy to spot the people who have hurt you. It’s easy to call them narcissists, manipulators, energy drainers—and sometimes they are. Recognizing that is important. You’re not crazy, Moonfam.

But lately, I’ve been learning to zoom out. Taking that bird’s-eye view lets you see something deeper:

People who hurt others are often deeply wounded themselves.

That doesn’t mean you have to let them back in. It means you get to observe them instead of absorbing their pain. For example, imagine someone who constantly lies to you.

At first, it’s natural to think, “Why are they doing this to me?”

But when you zoom out, you might realize—They lie because they’re terrified of being seen for who they really are.

It’s not about excusing behavior. It’s about understanding it enough to choose peace instead of resentment. That’s how you shift your energy from victimhood to power.

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Life Is a Mirror: Releasing the Victim Story

Moonfam, life is a mirror.

Everything happening around us is reflecting something back at us—sometimes our light, sometimes our wounds, sometimes our lessons.

It’s easy to slip into victim mode when life gets heavy.

“Why is this happening to me?”

I get it. I’ve been there more times than I can count.

But there’s something freeing about realizing you can choose a different question:

“What is this trying to teach me?”

“Where is this guiding me?”

When you stop blaming and start observing, you reclaim your power. And if the situation is too heavy—if the betrayal cuts deep or the loss feels unbearable—it’s okay to step into Hermit Mode for a while.

Pull your energy inward.

Treat yourself like sacred ground.

Picture it like tending a garden: When a storm passes through and damages the plants, you don’t yell at the garden. You give it extra care. You replant, you nourish, and you trust it will bloom again.

You deserve that same grace.

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Seeing the Illusion Without Getting Stuck

Moonfam, the 3D world moves through cycles of opposites—light and shadow, growth and stillness, joy and sorrow.

It’s part of the soil we’re planted in while we’re here.

But here’s the truth:

You’re not the seasons that pass through.

You are the gardener — the one who tends to your own inner space, no matter what’s happening around you. It’s easy to get caught up in labeling experiences as “good” or “bad,” but real wisdom comes when you realize: You can notice the shifts without losing your roots.

You know your spirit is like a sacred garden. Some days are full of sunshine. Other days, the rain feels endless. But either way, your role stays the same: to nurture what’s true, to trust in what’s growing, even if you can’t see it yet.

You don’t have to fight the changes of the world to live consciously here.

You simply have to remember:

You are the life within it.

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Awakening the Third Eye: A New Way of Seeing

When you start stepping outside those old boxes—when you stop getting stuck in the mirror games of the 3D—you’ll notice something shifting inside you.

Your third eye starts to wake up.

Your inner sight.

You develop discernment.

For me, this journey actually began early in life. I had two near-death experiences between the ages of four and nine—moments that, at the time, I didn’t fully understand. Like many childhood memories, I tucked them away as life kept moving forward.

But now, looking back with clearer eyes, I can see how deeply those experiences shaped me—how they made me more sensitive, more in tune with energies that many people never even notice.

Opening the third eye isn’t all magic and rainbows. It’s messy. It’s emotional. It stretches you in ways you don’t expect. For me, it felt like carrying a pressure in my head that I couldn’t explain—almost like my energy was expanding faster than I was ready for.

Some days it felt overwhelming, like waves building inside me with nowhere to go.

It wasn’t until I surrendered, softened, and allowed the process to unfold that the pressure finally turned into clarity.

Prayer helped.

Violet Flame Meditation helped.

Letting go helped.

If you’re feeling more intuitive lately, more emotional, maybe even overwhelmed—you’re not broken.

You’re birthing a new way of seeing.

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Activating Your Creative Intelligence

One of the most beautiful gifts of awakening is the return of your creative intelligence.

Moonfam, you are a natural creator. You’re not meant to just survive. You’re meant to dream, to imagine, to find beautiful solutions to even the messiest challenges. When your third eye opens, you’ll notice that problems start feeling different too.

Instead of being stuck in “Why is this happening?” energy, you’ll start asking, “How can I create something new from this?”

For example, when I faced heartbreak that once would’ve broken me, I used the energy to fuel a creative project. When I lost opportunities that felt unfair, I used the time to rebuild something even better.

You have that same power.

It’s already inside you.

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Walking Forward in Love

The journey of awakening isn’t about becoming perfect.

It’s about becoming whole.

Life will always move through cycles—death, rebirth, endings, beginnings. When you surrender to those changes instead of resisting them, you activate a deeper love inside you.

A love that anchors you.

A love that leads you home.

You are limitless.

You are creative.

You are powerful beyond what this 3D world can even reflect back to you. And the beautiful part?

You’re just getting started.

Stay rooted in love, Moonfam.

The best is unfolding right now.

With love and light,

Jojo – Cozy Moonchild ✨🌙

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If today’s message stirred something inside you, I’d love to hear it, Moonfam. What old box are you ready to break free from? Share your reflections below — your voice matters here.